tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823668241081756556.post2273325434902364276..comments2012-07-13T01:30:52.456-05:00Comments on Gastric Bypass Catharsis: long distance is hardAJhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10628489554881274458noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823668241081756556.post-69355374409594427782008-09-05T08:40:00.000-05:002008-09-05T08:40:00.000-05:00Loving someone shouldn't be this much stress. I s...Loving someone shouldn't be this much stress. I still want to know if he reads this blog or not. My husband always says, "it's always about effort with women" and by women, he means me. And yes, it is all about effort. Because effort means you care enough to put words into action. DJ doesn't seem to be making much of an effort to improve the situation. Go out, chill out, have a drink, no wait, we can't do that can we!! LOL Invite your friends up, go out and meet some new people and have fun!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04968787415210809592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823668241081756556.post-20447259951586992062008-09-03T11:21:00.000-05:002008-09-03T11:21:00.000-05:00I wish I had some sage advice for you that can mak...I wish I had some sage advice for you that can make you feel better. But I don't.<BR/><BR/>It just doesn't seem like a long distance relationship with a guy who will not separate from his mother is healthy for you. <BR/><BR/>At a bare minimum, it sounds like you need some friends nearby. Have you tried getting involved in some local groups? Maybe volunteering for a non-profit that you strongly support, or checking out what kinds of Meet-Up groups exist in your area?Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07920555938657229927noreply@blogger.com